Thing 2 produced the shell from his overstuffed Spider-Man backpack and began a brief history on how people along the Long Island Sound once used shells as currency. "But only if it has this blue part," he said, pointing out the patch of color on each half of the shell's inner lip. "If it wasn't blue, it wasn't money."
Though most of my four decades have been lived within a few miles of the Connecticut shores, my son -- at age 7 -- is now our household authority on the city's beachfront and aquatic life. That's just what I was hoping he'd become when he first told me he wanted to go to the summer camp run by a local nonprofit group that educates people about the wonders of the Long Island Sound and our obligation to protect it for future generations.
Growing up as I did in the one-acre-zoned isolation of upper suburbia made it easy to forget that our city fronts not just water but a vital Atlantic estuary that has provided food, livelihood and recreation to billions throughout time. But that is life in that part of town. It is sometimes like being stranded on an island where the only escape route of merit is a high-speed ribbon of asphalt running parallel with but never to the shore.
Besides, I come from a family of strict non-adventurers. Any trip from our neighborhood valley to a point much farther south than the all-you-could-eat salad bar at the old Brock's was believed to require a three-day supply of drinking water and a Sherpa.
This, however, should not be my son's life. He has the instinctive curiosity about nature and geography that I lacked as a child and then some, and I envy him in that way. After taking part in a free program SoundWaters offered this past winter at his school, he was eager to spend a few weeks of his summer learning more about how to tell a male diamondback terrapin from a female (all in the tail, people, all in the tail) and chasing spider crabs along the shores.
True to form, in recent days he has filled us with facts about how flounders evolved and what life is like in a salt marsh. Extracting each of these tidbits, though, required the usual parental pulling and prodding and, frankly, that left me a little disappointed. With his brain being crammed with new knowledge, I had expected regular deluges of tidbits without me needing to use that special singsong tone I normally save for coaxing out answers about his school day or why he hit his big sister.
Then one night, as I stepped onto the deck to cover the Weber following an evening's grilling, a full moon surprised me with its pale orange glow radiating mystically through the August haze. I called into the house for the kids to rip themselves from their portable gaming systems. All I hoped to hear from at least one of them was a simple "cool."
Thing 2 looked up and suddenly broke from his Nintendo trance.
"The horseshoe crabs are laying their eggs!" he said. "They only do that during full moons. They're laying them right now down on Cove beach."
That's when I knew camp had been worth every clam I had shelled out.
So didja run to the beach or dial it up on the laptop via the beach cam like I would have.
ReplyDeleteVery Cool, Thing 2! I think you are ready for your own Nature Blog.
ReplyDeleteYou should have come to visit me and Christie when we were lifeguarding at said beach.
ReplyDeleteBut that was a whole 'nutha kind of wild life.
Living my entire on the water (I grew up on the South Shore of LI on the Great South Bay, now I live on the North Shore and Centerport Harbor), I am constantly amazed by how little I know about my surroundings.
ReplyDeleteGood for your kid.
Very nice!
ReplyDeleteIs he wearing a navy blue knit cap, smoking a pipe and speaking with a French accent yet?
Isn't it amazing to see your kids so excited about learning and exploring. It's one of my favorite things!
ReplyDeleteThis is the kind of information he'll retain his entire life. Love when kids find something they just want to absorb. It's that kind of thing that makes my oldest the world's foremost authority on all things Titanic. He wants to buy every book, even though I tell him the ending is always the same.
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That is such an awesome story!!! I love that. I have two nephews and one will tell us each individual item that made up his day (including when he goes poopoo) and the other, it's like pulling teeth to get anything out of him.
ReplyDeleteKids ... they are odd creatures.
blessings!
Now if all that education will help him understand that not all the ecologist have the answers, sadly the place is becoming much more barren with time.
ReplyDeleteSorry to be the spoil sport.
did you rush to the beach to witness the egg laying.
ReplyDeleteI've been thinking of signing my eldest up for that camp, but it's horrendously expensive. Maybe it's worth it.
ReplyDeleteDo you tell T2 that his brother Murphy would just as soon eat everything on the beach?
It is a truly awesome and worth every penny experience when you find something that speaks to your kid's soul.
ReplyDeleteWOW... how cool is it that you son has already found what he is passionate about! That is a gift indeed!
ReplyDeleteMy kids would have given me a "cool" for the moon, but Thing2's answer was MUCH better!
And I learned something today... that's cool!
I love it! I am trying to raise two nature lovers and it is working.
ReplyDeleteI wanna go to Summer Camp instead of working. Work sucks. Horseshoe crabs laying eggs is way cooler.
ReplyDeleteI loved this. If nothing else than to learn that I'm not the only parent out there that has to poke and prod to get any kind of info from my kid(s). Boy #3 started Kindergarten this week and has been excited about going for the last 2 years. I pick him up Monday afternoon and ask him about his first day and all I get is "fine". It wasn't until the next day when he had artwork that came home that he finally opened up and talked my ear off about his activities at school.
ReplyDeleteAnd, um, Yay! I can finally comment on blogs again. I'm sure you're thrilled ;).
Awesome! I call those moments in time with children "Kodak moments" for my memories - it is more than a picture, it is an experience. A treasure!
ReplyDeleteThat is so cool.
ReplyDeleteI have wonderful memories of collecting shells out at my great aunt's on Saugatauk Shore. You can't get "angels toe nails" out here on the west coast.
My boys are nature boys too, but my oldest shuts down like a clam if you ask him anything about it.
I suspect my youngest will be more like your boy, and I can't wait to hear what he has to tell us.
I think Thing 2 and my 8 yr old were siblings in another life. She loves all things nature, and had to do the Turtle Troop walk (at 7:30 am!) while we were on vacation - Vero Beach has protected turtle nests and migration paths.
ReplyDeleteThe only difference between Thing 2 and my daughter is that she then talked non-stop about all things turtle. That's a good thing unless you're a parent who's just woken up and haven't had her coffee yet.
What a cool kid. I love it when my daughter does this, shares some bit of knowledge she's learned at the most opportune time. Makes me smile every time.
ReplyDeleteI'm wondering . . . how far are you from Mystic? We stopped there at the Aquarium several summers ago on a return trip from Boston. It was the highlight of the trip for me . . . the first time I've ever seen an ocean.
I love that. I have two nephews and one will tell us each individual item that made up his day
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That is awesome! I love that he is so passionate about aquatic life. I wish my stepson would be passionate about anything other than his DS. We are working on it ;)
ReplyDeleteI got pushed here by Vodka Mom. But that's ok. I like cool people :)
ReplyDeleteIt sounds awesome! I'm so glad he's adventurous and is enjoying the marine life. I wish I were closer to the shore!
ReplyDeleteCamp can sometimes be so under rated. Glad the investment was worth it to them and you...
ReplyDeleteYou just never know how profoundly kids can be affected by their experiences. Very cool!
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